How "Your Dream Wedding" looks like ?

Do you have plan to get married this year??

Or perhaps not yet, but maybe do you have your dream wedding?
What is it like?
Vintage wedding, rustic, traditional, or a fairy tale such as Disney's princess movie wedding?

That's sound amazing isn't it?

Every girls has a right to decide what their wedding ceremony be like. Because for me, "marry once in your life, with the right man". In my perspective, being married is a serious decision, so I will not mess around with this things. You have to thought carefully what is your purpose to get married. Because you married is not for yourself, but also your family. Marriage merges two family with very far different background and tradition. So, it is not a big deal, if you want special yet unforgettable wedding ceremony in your big day.

This year, I will start my new journey in life. This year will be many adventures and learning. I'm so excited but also worry, am I able to be a good partner or not? Of course, I also have my dream wedding. Honestly I love something close to nature and vintage. So, I decided to have my wedding party a rustic theme. However, I am Javanese, which is the customs very strongly attached in the life, so I will mix it as traditional and rustic wedding ceremony. What will it be like? hahaa..

I'm prefer looking for ideas or tips for my wedding theme in Pinterest or blog.  If, you like rustic wedding ceremony also, I have some inspiration for you. Check the link below :

1. Junebug Wedding

    This blog is my favorite to get ideas for rustic or vintage wedding. There are many tips such as  wedding dress, bridesmaids style, photographer, venue, etc. To see the wedding style you can open  the "real wedding" section on the web.

Source : Vintage Texas Wedding at The Cottages on Mill Creek

Source : Youll-Love-This-Incredible-Upcycled-Wedding-at-Red-Barn-Weddings

2. BrideStory

    This is blog not only give you wedding ideas, but also provide vendor to help you preparing your wedding. It has a lot of vendors, so you can freely choose the wedding theme from traditional until modern.

Source : Raisa & Hamish Wedding 

Source : Farah & Dirga - Javanese Wedding

Source : Rodra & Nadia Javanese Wedding

3. Pinterest

    A platform for you to get many ideas such as DIY, style, home decor, until wedding inspiration. I love to scrolling my mouse in Pinterest, this platform just so amazing. You can get new knowledge and information as easy as you flip your hand..hahaa.  Here some wedding inspiration that I got from Pinterest.

Rustic flower bucket

Rustic Wedding Invitation

Wedding Dress

Wish a great wedding ceremony dears, hope my writing gives you some help for preparing you wedding day.. (^_~). Thanks for reading my blog. See you ~ ~ ~

Story of the Rain City "Bogor"

"Kota hujan, kota sejuta angkot, tapi juga kota sejuta kenangan"
~ Jihan the Wanderer

Back to this city or just short time visit, is always my favorite. Yeah, now I'm living in Jakarta. Long time ago when I was Junior High school, is the first time for me to visit Bogor. That time, Bogor's weather is so comfort, cold and fresh rather than my metropolitan city. There were so many big trees, I felt like in a jungle, feel freedom to take fresh deep breath. Since then, I had ever said in heart that I want to live here, in this city "Bogor". 

In this city, I'm falling in love

Who knows, that God heard my wish, about 5 years later, I got a chance to study in one of best campus in my country and it's located in Bogor. The biggest campus in Bogor. For almost 5 years, I've lived in Bogor. In this city I met, new friends, new challenge, new opportunity, family even love. 

As the raining comes, it's also story comes

Beside the people, I also love the ambiance of this city, the smell of land when its rain, the old building, the old market even the traditional food. Yeaah, there are so many kind of food here. From traditional until modern. Now, there are so many chic and Instagramable cafe in this rain city. But, Bogor now is more crowded than long time ago, when I was there. Bogor now has so many mall, supermarket and fast food restaurant, traffic jam every where. Bogor is not as cold as past. But the ambiance, I still like it. Sometimes at weekend I make s short visit, only just walking near the Istana Bogor (Presidential Palace), feeding deer, buying flower in traditional market or hunting photo.

In my campus

Big tree

Oh deer ~ ~ ~

Flowers lover

Old Building

Horse

When you are in Indonesia, don't forget this rain city ~ ~ ~

Berbagi dengan binatang

Hhmm...
Mau curcol ceritanya tentang kejadian sore ini..
Mungkin temen2 pernah ngalamin yg namanya apes..haha
Saat mengalami yg namanya "APES" pasti kalian merasa menjadi orang yang paling kasian di dunia ini ~~~ lebaay..
Hahaa
Jadi cerita nya sore ini hujan deras..dan sebelum malem, gw harus nyiapin masakan buat bekel kantor besok.
Secara bahan-bahan udah disiapin yaa langsung lah menuju ke dapur..rencananya mau masak kulit melinjo sambel teri..hhmm *udah bayangin pedes-pedesnya enak...
Pas sampe dapur, celingak-celinguk nyari bungkusan teri..lenyaap..yang ada cuman kulit melinjo nya aja ma cabe...hhhmm suudzon ma tersangka utamanya..siapa lagi klo bukan meoong *hiikss..soalnya dikosan udah kayak peternakan kuciing..banyaak banget kucingnya..dicari tuh buntelan teri kesana kemari gak nemu..Yaudah deh aku rapopo *elus-elus dada..
Adeek lafaaar baang ~~~
Karena udah kepepet, kulit melinjo udah direndem tadi..mau gak mau harus dimasak malem itu jugaa..*cling
Adaa ide, tadi abis belanja ikan mateng..jadilah ikan diambil dagingnya suwir-suwir, dimasak pedes sama yang namanya kulit melinjo..
Hhhmm..nyam nyaam bau nya aja udah bikin ngileer..
Siipp..udah mateng..ditutup dan ditimpa lagi sama yang namanya ulekan batu..jaga-jagaa dari kucing bandel..
Ditinggal mandi deh..dan temen gw teriak-teriak..bilang kalo wajannya numpleek..dimakan kucing ikannya..
Ya Allooohh...sediiih...apes amat yaa..makaan ajaa belum...*sabar-sabar..
Biasanya gw pasti langsung marah-marah, kesel, ngoceh-ngoceeh..
Tapi kali ini kok enggak yaa..agak sabar gitu..hehe
Terbesit dalam pikiran dan teringat tulisan seseorang..bahwa "Allah memberikan suatu kejadian, bukan karena tanpa alasan"...*jadi mikir...
Oiyaaa...mungkin gw kurang beramal sama binatang yaa..makhluk Allah SWT. kan gak cuman manusia, tapi ada binatang, tanaman, dan semua yang ada di bumi ini..jadi mungkin sore ini Allah ngingetin gw untuk saling berbagi dengan si meooong itu..mungkin itu meooong udah kelaperan berhari-hari *positivethinking...haha

Mungkin kalian pernah ngalamin hal serupa, atau lebih paraah..misal: ban bocor pas harus buru-buru berangkat ke kantor..udah dandan menor buat kondangan, eh tiba-tiba kepeleset masuk comberan, lagi buru-biru mau hangout, dompet ketinggalan..dan masih banyak lagi ke-apes-an yang dialamin..dari semua kejadian itu, mungkin ada pesan dan peringatan tersirat..haha

Jadi, yakinlah dibalik ke-apes-an itu pasti ada hikmah dibaliknya..
#keeppositive

Begitulah guuys curcolaan gw sore ini...yang punya cerita sama boleh dishare di kolom komen..
Thanks for reading my blog :)

I call it "Volunteers"

     
     On this great years, I want to do many things to make my life better and to be a useful for others. I joined as volunteer in "Sekolah Anak Bahari". Sekolah Anak Bahari is social organization that help coastal children to get better education. We do non formal education for the children, but we also contribute on some projects for the local people and also environment. You can call me newbie here, but meet this team made me already like family. No classification, no gender, no senior or newbie, no differences. If we have the same mission, so we are one, we are unite, and we are "volunteer".

     Sekolah Anak Bahari is not only places for study math, reading or writing. We teach the children arts, sing a song, DIY, how to re-use waste material, and also how to love environment. We realized that to make a change we can not work alone, we have to work together. So happy that many communities or  foundation help us to make a better education for coastal children. Some of them help us to build the school, give book, table, and other study equipments. Some of them also share knowledge they knew, below are some activities that we already done for the coastal people in Tanjung Anom - Kait.

      On 14th August Sekolah Anak Bahari (SAB) collaborate with Lions Club did small project about "Youth and Environment". Children in Tanjung Anom - Kait was educated about how to  separate "organic" and "an-organic" waste. Two recycle bin already provided in front of SAB School. They did action by cleaning trash near the school and beach, then threw the waste into "organic" or "an-organic" recycle bin, based on its criteria.

      Green mussel shells are very many found there, it becomes waste and nobody cares or uses it. So, we trained local mother to reduce green mussel shells waste as decoration. Together we made handicraft , mosaic from green mussel shells. They were so happy and excited, so am I.

      On 28th of August, our school also join with health community to share about personal hygiene with the children. They thought the children how to wash hands well and how to brush their teeth in correct way. SAB's children are very happy and enthusiastic with this activity.

Thanks a lot for our friends who help us make the spirit keep alive....fighting !!! :)

LETTER OF ANXIETY

September 8,2016

"Nothing is perfect.
Life is messy.
Relationships are complex.
Outcomes are uncertain.
People are irrational. "

~ Hugh Mackay

Sudah lama kita bersama, 
seharusnya kita lebih mengerti satu sama lain.
Kita tahu, kita sama-sama ingin maju, terkadang kompetisi itu ada.
Tapi kita sadar, kita bersama untuk saling mendukung, saling berbagi...
Terkadang kita merasa iri, apabila salah satu dari kita sukses lebih dulu, itu wajar, itu manusiawi. 
Tapi kita sadar diri, sukses mu sukses ku juga, sukses ku sukses mu juga, sukses kita bersama.
Bahagia..iya bahagia untuk kita bersama, itu seharusnya..

Peluhmu yang menjadi kekhawatiranku, tapi apakah kamu mengkhawatirkanku dengan porsi yang sama?

Mungkin memang benar istilah bahwa "Wanita dari planet Venus" dan "Pria dari planet Mars". 
Jarak yang dipisahkan oleh ribuan bintang membuat pria kurang mengerti dan kurang peka dengan apa yang diinginkan wanitanya.
Hal yang mungkin  kecil bagimu, berarti besar untuk ku. 
Asal kamu tahu, apapun yang kamu lakukan untuk ku itu "spesial". Walau terkadang, aku yang harus "meminta"..oh tidak hhmm mungkin "mengingatkan", agar kata itu menjadi tepat bagimu, supaya kamu mengerti.
Sifatku memang cenderung tergesa-gesa dan ceroboh, sehingga mungkin aku tidak sadar hal itu mengganggumu.
Aku tidak ingin merusak harimu. Maafkan aku,  jika keluhku yang tidak jelas, kata-kata yang setengah-setengah,
itu karena terkadang aku tidak mengerti harus menjelaskan darimana. Terlalu takut kamu salah paham dan itulah memang yang sering terjadi pada kita.

Aku tahu kita sangat-sangat berbeda, tapi banyak alasan yang bisa menyatukan kita.
Aku harap kamu mengerti...

FIGHTING !!!

Up and down..yeeeaaah..it is life…But why we need to worry? We can change our life and believe everything will be OK. God will help you, to make your life be better. The thing that you must to do is, effort, pray, and a little luck, for the rest just let God make it happen. In sha allah..nothing impossible, for Allah to make it happen.

So, never give to make your dream come true, to make your life a better place.

This is a little reminder for myself, maybe my dream is too big and very difficult to catch it. I have dream to get scholarship for study Master in Holland. Can I get it?

It is not easy to get scholarship, first of all, I have to reach minimum 6.5 score for IELTS. I’m on my way and still processing to reach that goal with target 7 score. I’m not sure from where I have to start it, it has been 3 years after my graduation and I am lost contact with my lecturer. Besides that, my experience in social working or something activity about contribution to my country is very lack. I’m lacking of knowledge. Motivation, hhhmm..this is the hardest part that I must undergo, it is very difficult to motivate our self to keep on track and discipline to reach the target.

God my Allah, please help me to through this. Please open my mind and my heart to do this, I’m really really want my dream come true..

Don't be sad girls!!!

~ ~ ~

Mungkin kamu pernah merasa sendiri..tiba-tiba masuk ke lingkungan yang tak nyaman..teman-teman yang jauh dari se-pemikiran..

Inilah dunia yang sebenarnya..yang tak kau suka terpaksa suka..yang kau suka terpaksa kau tinggalkan..

Mungkin kau tak akan menemukan teman seperjuangan sehati dan serasa seperti saat di bangku perkuliahan atau di bangku sekolah..tapi inilah hidup..kita harus berjuang untuk bertahan dan keluar menjadi pemenang...

Teman tak pernah menjadi mantan teman..mereka ada..mereka menjadi pendukung di belakang layar..

Jadi lah pribadi yang tegar yang tak tumbang olah gelombang layaknya batu karang..hidup tak semata-mata mengejar dunia..ingat masih ada akhirat..dan kau punya Tuhan yang senantiasa ada , walaupun kau sering melupakan-Nya. Lantas, kenapa kau harus sedih dengan ketiadaan dan kesendirian mu, sedangkan Allah Maha Besar dan Maha Kaya karunia nya...

Setiap peluh dan pengorbanan yang kita lakukan sekarang..itu adalah jalan untuk membentuk diri yang mandiri..untuk merubah kita menjadi lebih baik...

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